In Australia, initiatives aimed at preventing violence are increasingly focusing on the constructive contributions that men and boys can offer.
There is a broad agreement that involving men and boys is a crucial aspect of prevention strategies, as seen in the national prevention framework “Change the Story” and the federal government's action plan addressing domestic and sexual violence.
Having spent over three decades in this domain, I once dedicated my efforts to justifying the necessity of engaging men and boys, but my current focus is more on how to achieve this.
There are prevention initiatives targeting boys and young men in educational settings, fathers, male athletes and their coaches, as well as men within various communities nationwide.
A wealth of research is emerging regarding effective strategies, with Australia’s initiatives expanding in both scope and complexity.
Programs designed for men and boys in Australia commonly acknowledge that conveying positive, strength-oriented messages is essential.
Our efforts should highlight the positive actions and qualities of men and boys, demonstrate how advancements in gender equality and the promotion of non-violence will benefit them, recognize the experiences of victimization among men and boys, and back their endeavors for meaningful change.
It is crucial to acknowledge that boys and men in contemporary Australia contend with evolving and conflicting societal expectations of masculinity, and we must assist them in making choices that are beneficial for themselves and those around them.
Some commentary in the media has suggested that efforts for prevention rely on “shaming and blaming” men, but that assertion is incorrect.
Anyone engaged in prevention efforts with men and boys will affirm that this approach leads to withdrawal and negative reactions, emphasizing that their initiatives are rooted in genuine care and optimism for men and boys.
These professionals prefer to “call in” men and boys instead of “calling out” – they engage with males where they are, recognize the challenges they face, and foster nurturing relationships and communities.
Simultaneously, messages directed at men and boys that focus on their strengths should not indicate unwarranted hopefulness or early praise.
It is essential to recognize that a significant minority of men and boys either perpetrate or accept violence against women.
Efforts in prevention must involve a strong examination of the gender inequalities that contribute to violence against women. Additionally, we should hold supportive men accountable to not just speak about positive changes but also to actively embody those values.
A fresh initiative from White Ribbon Australia calls upon men to participate. It encourages them to focus on making progress instead of attaining perfection, with the slogan, “Not Perfect, Better. ”
This initiative emerged from White Ribbon’s efforts in 2024 to gather insights from men and boys through various focus groups and interviews.
Participants from diverse backgrounds expressed that although they were concerned about violence against women, they felt uncertain about how to contribute to prevention efforts, often believing they lacked the necessary skills or qualifications. One man posed the question, “Can I still raise my voice if I’m not perfect? ” The response – absolutely.
A significant number of men believe that without a flawless track record in their interactions with women, they are unable to intervene, question an inappropriate joke, or voice their discomfort when something seems off.
That inaction is a significant part of the issue. The framework of "Not Perfect, Better" makes it easier for men to take action. It encourages men to implement small, positive alterations in their interactions with partners, children, friends, and themselves.
This initiative focuses on the daily aspects of our lives rather than large-scale demonstrations. Its goal is to foster behaviors, habits, and interactions among men, women, children, and others that lead to respect, gender equality, and non-violence.
As a result, the campaign aids in primary prevention, decreasing the likelihood of violence occurring and the suffering associated with it.
Addressing and minimizing men's violence against women necessitates a shift in culture, as this violence is entrenched in gender norms, institutional attitudes, and power disparities.
While it is essential to enhance our support for those who have survived violence and to ensure that offenders face consequences, we also need to cultivate an environment where every man finds the idea of using or endorsing violence unacceptable from the outset.
In order to contribute positively to stopping this violence, men do not need to be flawless. What matters is our readiness to be present, voice our opinions, and set a good example.
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